Entering a Person's World: Identifying Entry Gates

Entering a Person's World: Identifying Entry Gates

The following is an excerpt from the book summary of “Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands” by Paul Tripp.

You must identify entry gates in your relationships to move it “from a casual relationship to a life-changing one.”

Entry gates are not persons or problems, but “a particular person’s experience of the situation, problem, or relationship.

You must seek to find where a person is struggling in the moment.

Practical Steps to Start and Deepen Friendships

Practical Steps to Start and Deepen Friendships

Let’s consider some practical items on how to start friendships and deepen them...

 

1. The best thing you can do to start and deepen friendships with others is to make God your greatest friend. He truly knows you and deeply loves you. To put a human into that role will crush them and discourage you. Jesus is the supreme friend. Martin Luther stated, “God’s friendship is more precious than that of the whole world.” You’re bestie if I may. As well as if you are enjoying your friendship with Jesus it will flow into your horizontal friendships. 


Wisdom from the Bible on Friendship

Wisdom from the Bible on Friendship
  • Proverbs 12:26 – The righteous should choose his friends carefully.

  • Proverbs 13:15 – Good understanding gains favor, but the way of the unfaithful is hard.

  • Proverbs 13:18 – Poverty and disgrace come to him who ignores instruction, but whoever heeds reproof is honored. 

  • Proverbs 13:20 – Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. 

  • Proverbs 14:10 – The heart knows its own bitterness, and no stranger shares its joy.

Lessons on Friendship

Lessons on Friendship

When we were young friendship happened to us. Believing that friendship will “just happen to us” is an immature perspective on adult friendship

The wish-dream of friendship is a hindrance to real, biblical friendship. When we hold an ideal of friendship in our minds, believing it's attainable, we hold a standard above the heads of the real men and women God has placed in our lives and then wonder why we’re constantly disappointed by the realities, complexities, and difficulties in our relationships. 

Redemption Groups: My Perspective

Redemption Groups: My Perspective

When people ask me to explain Redemption Groups I usually refer to the basic definition from Mike Wilkerson: “A Redemption Group is an intense small group that digs deep into difficult and seldom-discussed areas of life, such as abuse, addiction, and trials of all sorts…Far beyond Bible study, Redemption Groups are about life study—your life connecting with Jesus’ life. Participants challenge one another, and the Word reveals hearts.” 

My Experience Of Lone Willow Baptist Church

My Experience Of Lone Willow Baptist Church

I drove away from the parking lot of the Korean Central Church building on Sunday at 10:10am just after singing the first two songs with my Grace family. As I made my way down Chisholm Trail I prayed and listened to a pastor talk about his experience of being a part of revitalizing First Baptist Church, Durham the past 20 years. It gave me hope and excitement for what I was driving towards. After 35 minutes I came over the hill on FM 1434 and saw a steeple. A steeple that has been pointing to the glory of God for decades.