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I take sufficient time to experience and process difficult emotions such as anger, fear, and sadness. *

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I am able to identify how issues from my family of origin impact my relationships and leadership— both negatively and positively. *

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(If married): The way I spend my time and energy reflects the value that my marriage—not leadership— is my first priority. (If single): The way I spend my time and energy reflects the value that living out a healthy singleness —not leadership—is my first priority. *

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(If married): I experience a direct connection between my oneness with Jesus and oneness with my spouse. (If single): I experience a direct connection between my oneness with Jesus and closeness with my friends and family. *

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No matter how busy I am, I consistently practice the spiritual disciplines of solitude and silence. *

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I regularly read Scripture and pray in order to enjoy communion with God and not just in service of leading others. *

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I practice Sabbath—a weekly twenty-four-hour period in which I stop my work, rest, and delight in God’s many gifts. *

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I view Sabbath as a spiritual discipline that is essential for both my personal life and my leadership. *

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I take time to practice prayerful discernment when making plans and decisions. *

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I measure the success of planning and decision-making primarily in terms of discerning and doing God’s will (rather than exclusively by measures such as attendance growth, excellence in programming, or expanded impact in the world). *

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With those who report to me, I consistently devote a portion of my supervision time to help them in their inner life with God. *

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I do not avoid difficult conversations with team members about their performance or behavior. *

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I feel comfortable talking about the use of power in connection with my role and that of others. *

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I have articulated and established healthy boundaries in relationships that have overlapping roles (for example, with friends and family who are also employees or key volunteers, etc). *

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Instead of avoiding endings and losses, I embrace them and see them as a fundamental part of the way God works. *

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I am able to prayerfully and thoughtfully let go of initiatives, volunteers, or programs when they aren’t working well, doing so clearly and with compassion. *

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